Loneliness attracts spirits

Can Loneliness Attract Spirits and Lead to a Romantic Relationship with Them?


Many people contact our center because they suffer from loneliness. It is not uncommon for their suffering to be exacerbated by spirits attached to these individuals. In today's article, we will answer the questions of why loneliness can attract spirits and whether it is possible to be in a romantic relationship with a spirit.


The Impact of Loneliness

Across the globe, there is an increasing trend toward living alone, driven by a myriad of complex factors. Social and cultural shifts, such as growing independence, especially among women, and changing values around marriage and family, encourage prioritizing career and personal development. Economic factors, including better earning opportunities and financial independence, enable solo living, while high living costs and housing expenses discourage family commitments. Moreover, advancements in communication technologies allow for maintaining social connections without physical presence, and dating apps facilitate short-term relationships. Demographic changes, such as population migration to large cities, foster individualism and anonymity.

Loneliness can lead to a range of complex emotions that affect both mental and physical health. The feeling of loneliness is often associated with sadness, depression, and anxiety. It can result in lowered self-esteem and a sense of hopelessness. It is not surprising that many people feel a strong desire to be in a relationship under these circumstances.


The Challenges of Relationships

However, relationships are not easy. The universe operates on a principle of mirroring, meaning we attract people with similar weaknesses to our own. Most of us prefer not to see our weaknesses reflected in those closest to us, instead clinging to the illusion that a partner will complete us and heal our wounds. Many also feel sexually unfulfilled, yet casual relationships fail to fill this void in our needs.


 looking for a date2


Thus, we continuously fuel the desire to meet the ideal partner, which, combined with sexual needs, creates a strong attractive energy. This energy is emotional, and it is at this level that we build increasing magnetism. We attract people similar to us to this dynamic, but it also becomes a powerful magnet for entities without physical bodies but with needs very similar to our own. These are the souls of deceased people (spirits) who have not left the physical realm and wander among the living.


Can Loneliness Attract Spirits and Lead to a Romantic Relationship with Them?

Such spirits are very interested in contact with the living because we are constantly replenished with new energy from the universe, which supports the development of all forms of life, including our human form. Spirits, meanwhile, engage in something that does not align with the perfect path of development after the physical body's death. They should move to higher vibration fields, not remain close to physicality. One consequence of this choice is that such a soul disconnects from the "power source"—the energy for daily functioning. This is supposed to create discomfort, prompting it to leave.

Spirits see our energy and feel that by approaching humans, they can feed on it. Additionally, the desire to connect with another soul in a romantic, friendly, or sexual relationship is activated. Consequently, the spirit is increasingly drawn to the living. The living person feels this and rightly assumes that their desire is nearing fulfillment, which further ignites it. Eventually, the attraction energy becomes so strong that the spirit remains permanently with the person. This is a fulfilling experience for both parties, especially for the spirit, which also gains the desired energy. The film "Endless" portrays this well.


sexual abuse by spirits


Fulfillment often occurs regarding sexuality, whose main component is emotion, and the spirit lives in its emotional body after the physical body's death. However, this bliss lasts only a short time because the spirit becomes dependent on our energy. Although we are drawn together by shared desires, such a relationship is inherently toxic, and its foundation is NEVER love. The reason is that the spirit operates on a survival level, not on the plane of love. A true relationship is one where there is higher love and freedom, and its foundation is always selfless giving. Here, we will not have that because, after fulfilling its romantic and sexual longings, the spirit will primarily want the living's energy. To obtain it, it will do anything, stopping at nothing (This is also the reason why from now on spirits may constantly and incessantly demand sexual contact). This sounds ominous, and it indeed is. We have detailed the consequences of what awaits us in such a relationship on this page: Common Symptoms of Spirit Attachment. Our article "Sexual Attacks by Unseen Entities" discusses in detail the sexual encounters with spirits.


Maintaining Emotional Awareness

In conclusion, as humans, we must maintain constant awareness of our emotional lives. This will allow us to increasingly recognize our desires, the pursuits arising from them, and their consequences. Summarizing in one sentence from the book "Possessed by Ghosts"—"Leave the world of the living to the living, and the dead to the dead," and we must adhere to this as strongly as possible if we wish to avoid experiencing the astral sufferings projected onto us by the spirits of the deceased.



About the Author:

Michael, a co-founder of The Dr. Wanda Pratnicka Center, holds a B.A. degree in psychology and is a spiritual teacher and healer, with a specialization in spirit removal. Under the mentorship of Wanda Pratnicka, Michael gained profound spiritual insights into the nuances of spirit attachment phenomenon, and for many years, he played a crucial role in assisting her with the remote spirit removal process. In his leisure time, Michael finds solace in meditation, immerses himself in the timeless beauty of classical music, and cherishes tranquil walks by the sea.


 Stay tuned for enlightening new blog posts EVERY SUNDAY - your weekly dose of inspiration and guidance.





1. You can find more information about common symptoms of spirit attachment / possession here:


2. How to check whether you or your loved one are experiencing a spirit attachment?


3. Want to learn more about how we remove spirits?





Load more